This is not to start a debate, but simply a discussion. There are many of you, like me, who are apart of both the xofam and cudfam. Both fam's attract different sorts of people, however lately the xofam has repulsed me a bit. I feel as though ever since Abel's music has become overly sexualised, the fans are changing. It seems as though the fam isn't all about the depth of Abel's music anymore. The xofam used to be more classy and modest in what they post. Now, it seems it's all about sex and drugs. No meaning is left, no emotional attachments to the music. "Or Nah" is a perfect example. Can we derive a sophisticated meaning from that? No, we cannot. We have come to a stage where the more indecent you portray yourself to be, the more accepted you are into the xofam. This is why I will always choose the cudfam over the xofam. Never in 6 years have I witnessed a negative change in the fam. I have never had an issue with the cudfam, you're all decent and beautiful people and if anyone knows what meaningful music is, it's us. Comment what you think below, I would love to hear your opinions. We all have a right to express what we think.